Attachment

Have you ever been in the situation where you have to move yourself aside from things and people or anything else that keeps you happy? I may sound little crazy or stupid by stating so. Here i will only be talking about the attachment that we will have as a person to person. Attachment is the emotional dependence we put on things, or people, with some degree of our fact of existing into the precious thing we hold so dear. Well all I want to ask is how do we let go of a person that we have come so close to?? 😦 And I personally think that’s not something one can do very easily if ever.

Letting go sometimes gives us freedom. Freedom in every way but doest it really gives you happiness on behalf of loosing something that is so precious to you? Well after all said and done one should also learn not to be attached. They says attachment comes naturally then why don’t not being attached comes naturally too? 😦 Why cant we just forget about that one person and go back to being normal again?

People come and go into our life. Some of them becomes


friend and some just leave the mark into out heart. Forgetting the person that you admire a lot just because it seems its not going to work out can be very unpleasing but yes its not worth while either to be clinging on them constantly. Just because my inner demon is ignoring the fact I don’t know why in earth now I feel like I played the victim and wondered why in the world this was happening to me. And then I realized that all of that clash in my head, and all of that upset and suffering was a function of me throwing a childish act because things weren’t going the way I wanted them to go. The world was not moving the way I wanted. 😦

It’s clearly not stupid to get attached to things or people, it shows we’re human. We have feelings, its just you gotta keep the positives in mind though! Remind yourself that you can still see friends and visit them whenever like, that there’s a lot to look forward to. It’s natural to miss things you enjoyed but you can’t let it take over your life, focus on the present and on creating positive and happy future ahead 🙂

They say everything happens for a reason. But sometimes things happen just to remind us, to remind us to get back on track. Go get out and search yourself, search who you are first for the source of happiness.

Stay happy!! 🙂
XOXO
Malika

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